Emotionally Intelligent Leaders Bagian 2

10 06 2009

Self-Development Training (Bapak Arif Munandar)

@ PPSDMS Nurul Fikri Regional 4 Surabaya

Evan’s Blog - TPD PPSDMS Reg 4 Surabaya

Beberapa poin yang dapat diambil dari materi yang disampaikan adalah sebagai berikut :

*      Hal yang lebih penting dari konten yang disampaikan adalah apa yang ditangkap oleh audiens.

*      Skill is reachable but not teachable. Skill dapat dikembangkan dengan 2 cara yaitu, melalui latihan dan memperbanyak jam terbang.

*      Building great intrapersonal relationship by managing individual rules.

*      In peace with our own self -> Positive thinking

*      Individual rules : nothing has to happen in order for us to feel good, but we decide to feel good.*      cek rules Anda sebelum dipakai : stimulus -> rules (proses) -> respon.

*      Rules bisa merubah Values menjadi Response.

*      It’s not the events of our live that shape us, but our believe.

*      Individual rules -> behavior :

  • Positive / productive
  • Negative / contraproductive

*      Achievement -> value

  • Wrong definition          : karir naik, gaji naik
  • True definition             : kompetensi naik, kontribusi naik

Jika seseorang telah memiliki True definition, dia akan bekerja “extramiles“, bekerja melebihi tuntutan (output oriented).*      Keunggulan perusahaan Multi National Company (MNC) jika dibandingkan dengan perusahaan nasional adalah standard baku yang diterapkan MNC lebih ketat dari pada perusahaan nasional. Perusahaan nasional punya kelemahan terlalu banyak kompromi.

*      The issue is not whether a rule is right or wrong, but whether that rule empowers or disempowers us.A rule is disempowering if :ü  It’s impossible to meetü  Something outside us determines whether our rule has been met or notü It gives us only a few ways to feel good and lots of way to feel bad.

*      Jangan menurunkan standard tetapi kita boleh bermain feel pada ekspektasi.

*      2 happiness traps :

  • We postpone our happiness
  • We look back to the past and say “Happiness is no a when – happiness is a now”

*      Set up a must rule only if Allah and the Prophet said so.

*      When experiencing a problem what is the problem I am experiencing telling me about myself  ? ask yourself :

  • My thought
  • Beliefs
  • Action
  • Choices
  • Life styles

*      The most empowering rule : “enjoy yourself no matter what happens”

Posted By : Evan Yofiyanto @ Evan’s Blog : My Diary (blog.its.ac.id/freax)[FREAX]


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